AuDHD Therapist: How My Lived Experience Benefits You

A Neuroaffirming Therapist Who Truly Understands Autism and ADHD

I’m an AuDHD therapist (Autistic + ADHD), and my neurodivergence isn’t something I leave at the door—it’s an integral part of how I understand, support, and connect with my clients.

For many people, especially those who are neurodivergent themselves, working with a therapist who has lived experience can make therapy feel safer, more validating, and more effective.

My approach combines professional training with lived understanding, creating therapy that is neuroaffirming, accessible, and genuinely supportive.

I Understand Neurodivergence From the Inside

I don’t just have clinical knowledge of autism, ADHD, and neurodivergence -I live it every day. This means I have a deep, intuitive understanding of experiences like:

• Sensory overwhelm and nervous system dysregulation

• Masking, people-pleasing, and chronic exhaustion

• Executive dysfunction and task paralysis

• Feeling “too much” or “not enough” in a neurotypical world

• Burnout from trying to keep up with expectations that don’t fit

You don’t need to over-explain or justify your experiences. I’m already familiar with the hardships you face.

A Neuroaffirming, Non-Judgmental Space

My approach is neuroaffirming, not pathologizing. I don’t see neurodivergence as something that needs to be fixed or taken away. Instead, we focus on understanding how your brain works, what your nervous system needs, and how to build a life that supports you.

Many clients tell me this is the first space where they feel truly accepted—without pressure to mask, perform, or “be more normal.”

Therapy That Adapts to You

Because I know how inaccessible traditional therapy can be, I work flexibly and collaboratively. Sessions can be adapted to your needs, including:

• Clear, direct communication

• Flexible structure and pacing

• Space for movement, stimming, or silence

• Practical strategies alongside emotional processing

• Respect for your changing energy levels and capacity
  

Therapy shouldn’t be another thing you have to push through—it should work with you, not against you.

Reduced Masking, Less Burnout

For many neurodivergent clients, therapy itself can feel exhausting if they’re masking the whole time. As an AuDHD therapist, I intentionally create a space where unmasking is welcomed and safe. You can show up as you are, without pressure to be “less autistic,” “more organised,” or “easier to work with.”

When you don’t have to translate yourself, therapy becomes a place of genuine relief, insight, and healing.

Strengths-Based and Empowering

I help clients move away from “What’s wrong with me?” and toward “How does my brain work best?” Together, we identify your strengths, values, and natural ways of thinking, and use those as a foundation for growth.

This often leads to increased self-trust, confidence, and self-advocacy—both in and outside the therapy room.

For Neurodivergent and Neurotypical Clients Alike

While many of my clients are autistic, ADHD, or AuDHD, neurotypical clients also benefit from my approach. My clients often appreciate my authenticity, creativity, deep empathy, and ability to notice patterns and connections others might miss.

Above all, I bring my whole self to my work—thoughtful, attuned, and deeply committed to understanding you.

You Don’t Need to Be “Fixed” to Be Supported

Therapy with me isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about understanding yourself more fully, reducing overwhelm, and creating a life that feels sustainable and authentic.

If you’re looking for a therapist who truly gets it, I’d be honoured to work with you.

FAQ 1: Do I need to be autistic or ADHD to work with a neurodivergent therapist?

No. While many clients seek me out because they are autistic, ADHD, or AuDHD, you don’t need a neurodivergent identity to benefit from working with a neurodivergent therapist. Neurotypical clients often value the authenticity, direct communication, and flexible, strengths-based approach that neurodivergent therapists bring to therapy.

FAQ 2: What is neuroaffirming therapy?

Neuroaffirming therapy recognises autism and ADHD as natural variations of the human brain—not disorders that need to be fixed. Instead of focusing on deficits, neuroaffirming therapy supports self-understanding, nervous system regulation, reduced burnout, and building a life that works for your brain.

This approach is especially supportive for autistic adults, ADHD adults, and late-diagnosed clients.

FAQ 3: How is therapy with an AuDHD therapist different from traditional therapy?

Therapy with an AuDHD therapist is often more flexible and accessible than traditional talk therapy. Sessions may include clear communication, adjusted pacing, practical tools, and permission to move, stim, or sit in silence.

Many clients say this reduces masking, exhaustion, and the feeling of having to “perform” in therapy.

FAQ 4: Can you help with autistic burnout or ADHD burnout?

Yes. Autistic burnout and ADHD burnout are common reasons clients seek therapy with me. I support clients in recognising burnout signs, understanding nervous system overload, and making sustainable changes that reduce chronic stress and exhaustion.

Burnout is not a personal failure—it’s often a sign that demands exceed support.

FAQ 5: I was late-diagnosed autistic / ADHD. Can therapy help?

Absolutely. Many of my clients are late-diagnosed autistic or ADHD adults. Therapy can help you process identity shifts, grief, relief, anger, and self-redefinition after diagnosis, while also building self-acceptance and practical support strategies.

FAQ 6: Do you help with masking and people-pleasing?

Yes. Masking and people-pleasing are common survival strategies for neurodivergent adults. In therapy, we gently explore where masking is costing you energy and how to reduce it safely—without putting you at risk or pressure.

The goal isn’t to unmask everywhere, but to create spaces where you don’t have to.

FAQ 7: Is this therapy suitable if I’ve struggled with therapy before?

Yes. Many clients come to me after feeling misunderstood or unsupported in previous therapy. My approach is collaborative, transparent, and adaptable—especially for people who found traditional therapy confusing, invalidating, or exhausting.

FAQ 8: How do I know if you’re the right therapist for me?

The right therapist is someone you feel safe with, understood by, and able to be honest around. If you’re looking for a neuroaffirming AuDHD therapist who values lived experience, flexibility, and authenticity, we may be a good fit.